If you want 2014 to be the best year ever, you’d do well to look back at the choices you’ve made up to this point. In 31 Days of Confessions, we sit down with some of our favorite funny folks—GirlCode‘s Jamie Lee, comedian Hank Chen, SheHasHadIt blogger Jarvis Derrell, and My Gay Roommate‘s Noam Ash and Austin Bening—and get them to share their innermost secrets.

It’s Fabulous Friday, and Jamie Lee recalls a recent experience with a fan that was somewhat less than fabu.