Dan Savage is on tour promoting his new book of essays, American Savage, and spoke with Canada's Xtra about writing it, starting It's Getting Better, the cultural shift toward LGBT equality, his husband's stint as a sexy underwear model, and handling his son's coming out—as heterosexual.

Is it us, or is Dan flirting with the interviewer?

And in case you forgot who it is Dan gets to go home to bang, here are some of Terry Miller's beefcake photos.