Few deaths have been more shocking to gay television viewers than that of Ianto Jones in this summer’s Torchwood: Children Of Earth. His death during the fourth night of the BBC miniseries created a huge backlash, none of which surprised me more than claims that Ianto’s demise was an expression of the show’s homophobia.

Created by Russel T Davies, an openly gay writer famous for the complex and empowering Queer As Folk, and starring John Barrowman, who might just be the most boisterously “out” star in the industry, Torchwood has been a bastion of queer pride since its debut in 2006. It evokes a world where homophobia is so non-existent that labels “gay,” “straight,” and “bi” have become irrelevant.

So how does the death of one of TV’s few prominent queer characters involved in a same-sex relationship fit into the show’s socially progressive vision? To my mind, Ianto’s death, rather than being homophobic, serves as a marker on the continuing road to true gay empowerment – a road that has frequently been two steps forward and one step back.

Going back a few years, Xena: Warrior Princess provides a perfect – and often frustrating – illustration of the stop-and-go process of queer empowerment in popular culture. The show’s lesbian theme started out buried in subtext, but by the 3rd season, the two lead characters were professing their love for each other and even enjoying an occasional same-sex lip lock.

Still, the show remained as vague on the subject as possible: the closest it came to openly discussing the lead characters’ lesbian relationship was when a secondary character confessed she wanted to be a “thespian” just like Xena and Gabrielle.

Nonetheless, Xena may have been the most empowering queer character of the ‘90s: this fierce warrior chopping up battalions of thugs with a joyful smirk was anything but a victim. And yet, when the show ended, it was not with a battle cry, but with a whimper. Even this undefeated killing machine had to pay for her sexuality with her life, and in the end, she died for love.

Her death might have been somewhat more heroic than the death of, say, Alan in Torch Song Trilogy or Brandon Teena in Boys Don’t Cry, but to this queer viewer, it was hardly less frustrating or disempowering. If a warrior princess forged in the heat of battle can’t manage to live as a happy dyke, what chance do we mere mortals have?

Like Xena, Torchwood’s Captain Jack Harkness is a complex character often haunted by his past misdeeds. And like Xena, he is a gay basher’s worst nightmare: a queer weapon-wielding, ass-kicking superhero gleefully chewing his way through awesome fight scenes.

But Torchwood is a 21st century show (and a British one at that), so it sheds the last vestiges of subtext that had dragged down Xena: Warrior Princess. Where Xena’s sexuality was never discussed, Captain Jack’s sexuality is brought up deliberately, then casually dismissed as irrelevant to who he is and what he does.

His sexuality makes him no less kick-ass, no less respected by his peers and no less feared by his enemies. In all fairness, he goes through his own painful coming out process – though it has to deal not with his sexuality, but rather with his inability to stay dead. His apparent immortality is often a source of angst and self-hatred; his queerness never is.

No less empowering than his superhero antics is the fact that Captain Jack comes from a future where divisions based on sexuality no longer exist, and even the labels themselves have lost all meaning. Many critics have pointed out that this fact alone makes the show more groundbreaking than anything to come before it.

But while Jack’s blasé attitude towards sexuality certainly rubs off on his present-day cohorts, the present in which they operate is still ripe with divisions. This conflict is most obvious in Torchwood: Children Of Earth, culminating in what I see as a showdown between a future where sexuality is a non-issue and a past where it’s equated with weakness, victimhood, shame and death.

While Jack, who’s been around for centuries, has had countless boyfriends and girlfriends (and probably a few alien squid-friends as well), the show has, so far, concentrated on his relationship with his male employee Ianto Jones (Gareth David-Lloyd).

The duo spent the first two seasons cocooned in the safety of the Hub, their super-secret sci fi lair where the tone of joyful omnisexuality set by Jack was happily followed by the other team members. (By the middle of the first season, every team member got to make out with a member of the same sex.)

The third season miniseries Children Of Earth begins with the destruction of this safe haven, which sends our heroes tumbling through a present-day world that might not be quite ready for this casual acceptance.

When we encounter him in the mundane world outside the Hub, Ianto shows himself to be as much a product of our culture as any of us. The scene in CoE where the audience is first introduced to his sister and her family is essentially the first time homophobia has ever come up on the show – and ironically, its source is Ianto himself.

Apparently, Ianto has kept his relationship with Jack secret from his working-class family. To be fair, his sister and brother-in-law are nowhere near as refined as Ianto as they drop offhand remarks such as “Have you gone bender?” - but these remarks seem more insensitive than mean, and the couple is actually very protective of Ianto.

Ianto's sister Rhiannon

Faced with his sister’s gentle questioning about his private life, Ianto looks like a deer caught in the headlights and doesn’t quite notice that she seems genuinely happy for him.

Ianto protests that he doesn’t want to talk about his relationship in front of his young niece - as if the news of him dating a man is something lewd and disgusting. But his sister quickly assures him that it’s not a problem, and that her daughter’s best friend has two mommies. Sexuality is obviously not an issue to Ianto’s family; still, Ianto looks as if he could die of shame.

Eventually, he admits that he is, in fact, in a relationship with a man, but is quick to assure his sister that this doesn’t make him bisexual. “It’s not men,” he tells his sister, “it’s just him.”

His claims of innocence sound a bit strange, considering that Ianto has often been the one pursuing Jack. Captain Jack might be an interminable flirt, but he rarely takes things further than that, preferring to wait for others to make the first move. He often takes the back seat, giving others room to figure out their sexuality for themselves.

For example, he doesn’t act on his attraction to a World War II-era soldier in the show’s ultimate same-sex romance episode "Captain Jack Harkness." Instead, he waits for the object of his desire to find the courage to act on his attraction to Jack.

This willingness to respectfully step aside is also central to Jack’s relationship with his fellow Torchwood officer Gwen Cooper: while both have deep feelings for each other, Jack quickly recedes from every opportunity to act on them – not because he puts much stock in Gwen’s relationship with her boyfriend, but because she does.

With Ianto, too, Jack rarely plays the seducer. Time after time, in episodes including "To The Last Man," "They Keep Killing Suzie," and in the third hour of Children Of Earth, Ianto is the one coming on to Jack. This doesn’t necessarily mean that Ianto has had other same-sex experiences (though in the safety of the Hub, he hardly acts like a newbie) – but he’s definitely not the shrinking violet helpless in the face of another’s sexual onslaught that he plays with his sister.

And yet, away from his teammates, Ianto still clings to the need to label his sexuality as “not queer.” In his defensive reaction to his sister, Ianto is making the same mistake too many pop culture powers-that-be still make when it comes to portrayals of queerness. He has failed to notice the strides the mainstream society has made in its attitude towards queer sexualities, expecting people to be much less accepting of him than they actually are.

Just as TV networks and film studios, especially in the U.S. often shortchange their audiences by assuming that they are too stupid or too conservative for a sophisticated discussion of sexuality, Ianto shortchanges his sister and her family by thinking that they somehow can’t handle his relationship with Jack.

In this way, while Jack represents a possible future, Ianto is a character rooted firmly in a past we are eager to shake off: a representation of self-hatred borne of real victimization, unable to move past it towards empowerment. He is reacting to a reality that doesn’t quite exist anymore.

Clem McDonald

Later in the miniseries, this changing reality is represented by the character of Clem McDonald. Clem is, literally, a throwback to the past, a remnant of events that took place in the 1960s and have triggered the present disaster. When he calls Ianto a queer, Ianto answers forcefully, “It’s not 1965 anymore.” Where his sister’s acceptance had scared and confused him, Clem’s put down evokes a more familiar expression of contempt that seems to energize Ianto.

Before Ianto dies, he tells Jack he loves him. Back in the surreal world of alien threats, he can once again drop all pretence, stop worrying about being gay or straight, and simply be.

The scene reminded me of many disempowering death scenes that invite straight audiences to commiserate with the queer character at the expense of queer viewers’ own self-esteem – but while many Torchwood fans have reacted to it with the anger that those previous disempowering death scenes elicit, I found myself reacting in quite the opposite way.

Showrunner Russel T Davies is no stranger to queer empowerment. His groundbreaking Queer As Folk, unlike its American remake, ends with a jubilant celebration of queer strength that makes me whoop with joy every time I watch it: the vision of the show’s two heroes, guns drawn, reclaiming their pride from a gay-bashing redneck, is sublime.

Russell T Davies

And while I certainly recognize that mine is only one of many interpretations offered by critics and fans in the wake of Torchwood: Children Of Earth, to me, the death of Ianto Jones is more at home with the empowerment of Queer As Folk (U.K.) than with the victimization of countless queer death scenes it evokes.

When it comes to Ianto’s attitude towards his sexuality, he’s reactive rather than pro-active; defensive rather than assertive; self-doubting rather than proud; queer only when no one possibly disapproving is present. Ianto’s attitude makes him literally a thing of the past - and the past swallows him up along with Clem and his perfunctory homophobia. In a moment full of poignant irony, Ianto and Clem are killed by the ghosts of the ‘60s.

For the vast majority of us, the fight for queer equality is far from over. Victimization of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transsexual people still exists in various degrees in most countries of the world. But surely, we have won enough ground in enough places that we no longer have to be content with our cultural role as victims.

Armed with an ever growing list of victories, the queer rights movement is gathering steam. What we need now is not pity, but our own superheroes: cultural proof that we don’t just exist – we kick ass.

Television is a good gauge of cultural attitudes. The fact that Torchwood, with its unapologetically queer superhero, is so popular with mainstream audiences, is a good indication of how far we’ve come.

The show has been largely embraced – same-sex smooching and all – by the notoriously macho-centric sci fi community, and Captain Jack action figures have taken their rightful place among other pop culture symbols. Queer kids growing up today have a cultural icon to claim as their own in a way none of us ever did before. And as they grow to adulthood, they will shape the world accordingly.

In this context, Ianto’s death seems logical, even welcome: to me, it symbolizes the shedding of our old skin, putting to rest all those doomed gay heroes of the past and starting with a clean slate. The beauty of Torchwood is that Captain Jack, who so dashingly embodies queer empowerment, can never die: he will go on, because he is the future.

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