We all know by now that being gay can mean being faced with our fair share of infuriating comments and questions, even from the most well-intentioned of people. But a new YouTube video is showcasing the reactions of gay couples to some of the worst offenders.

Some of the more irritating comments explored in the video include:

"Who's the man and who is the woman in the relationship?"

"You don't look like lesbians."

And of course, "Who's the top?"

The couples interviewed all try to explain their feelings on the subjects with as much poise as possible.

Check out the video below, and let us know which questions you are tired of hearing:

  h/t: Towleroad