Singer, judge, Celebrity Big Brother aficionado—Michelle Visage has done it all. And now she can add author to her CV: RuPaul's best squirrel friend has published The Diva Rules: Ditch the Drama, Find Your Strength, and Sparkle Your Way to the Top, a combination memoir and guide book for living your most fabulous life while still being ethical, successful and smart.

"To me, a diva is someone who is in complete control of every aspect of her lives," she tells us the video interview below. "Their personality, their career—and they do it with style and dignity."

And, Visage warns, there are definitely some pitfalls on the way to true divadom.

"A lot of us seem to think things are going to be dropped in our laps. It's never going to be dropped on your doorstep—and if it is, you're not meant to keep it."

Learn more pearls of Michelle's wisdom below.

Buy The Diva Rules today.