Paul Rudd: “I Love Gay Guys”

And we love you, Paul

Paul Rudd seems to be everywhere these days, whether it be from hosting Saturday Night Live to starring in the bromance I Love You, Man which snagged $18 million at the box office this weekend.

The latest Entertainment Weekly features a big writeup on the almost 40-year-old star and in it Rudd addresses his gay roles, gay friends and more. 


I always thought I’d be a really good gay guy. I love American Idol. I watch Antiques Roadshow like crazy. Guys like Oscar Wilde, Stephen Fry, Elton John — they’re all very bright, with a razor-sharp wit. David Sedaris — who’s funnier than David Sedaris? The Saturday Night Live that I hosted was such a gay-heavy show. But it didn’t even cross my mind until after. The family that kept kissing each other — I didn’t even think of that as being gay.

I remember doing interviews for The Object of My Affection, and people would say, ”What was it like to kiss a guy?” Like it was such a shocking thing. I said, ”How many times does anyone ask, ’You had to shoot somebody. Was that weird?”’ I love gay guys. I feel pretty gay. I’m certainly not the most macho guy in the room.

Well, I’m not much for American Idol and I’ve never seen Antiques Roadshow, but I appreciate his point.

Jenny and Paul

I’ve liked Rudd ever since Affection, but he lost a bit of his burnish in The 40-Year-Old-Virgin with that “You know how I know you’re gay” scene with Seth Rogen .

Seth Rogen and Paul Rudd in 40-Year-Old-Virgin

Rudd didn’t help his case with Role Models, which seemed to treat homophobia awfully lightly.

Then there was that odd SNL episode he hosted with a variety of gay sketches, some of which were better than others. 

But I’m still inclined to like Rudd—and he certainly doesn’t feel the need to distance from gay roles or traits. Plus he’s kissed a few guys and doesn’t sweat showing a little skin.

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What’s your take on Paul Rudd?